How do I display events or alarms for just one meter in an embedded List?

You will need to add a WHERE clause to the SQL query that generates the List. Use the WHERE clause to filter the results by the MeterName column, or some other column.

The TotalflowDemo.sde file includes an example of such a filter on the EventsAndAlarms Mimic. The example also shows how to animate the query so that the Mimic can be located in a Group Template.

Further Information

WHERE Clause